She may be so infatuated with him that she views anything that her parents say against the relationship as a personal attack.
She may feel like her parents don't care about her happiness or that they simply do not like the boy.
This could cause her to withdraw from the family in many ways and cause even bigger issues.
Parents must also deal with their daughter's often stubborn intention to date this young man.Let's look at the advice given by parents in two real life examples.In this scenario, a single mother of a 14-year-old girl asks how she should handle her daughter's desire to date an 18-year-old boy.You'll end up alienating the friends who are dropping truth-bombs such as the one above.Next thing you know, he's your closest friend as well as your boyfriend — which creates a co-dependent dynamic that's bad for any relationship.8. However cool it makes you is exactly how lame it makes him.You might feel like Joan Jett when he picks you up in his Seville outside the high school in front of all your friends, but he is being mercilessly mocked by all of the women in his life for dating a 14-year-old.2.It's not super-sweet and romantic of him when he buys you beer and/or gets you a fake.If you're an inexperienced drinker who feels it after 2 bottles of Mike's Hard, that benefits 3.Unless it's just a fun, sexy, baggage-free throw-you-over-your-desk situation where nobody gets hurt at the end.5.There's probably a reason no woman his age wants to date him. Defending your relationship will frequently ruin your friendships.