There are various other reasons why men like women. Before you grossly misjudge attractiveness to just one dimension of physical beauty, you ought to be aware that attractiveness is quite a relative concept, and can have different meanings for every man.While we don't deny that a nicely chiseled, slim, and well-rounded figure, long hair, beautiful eyes, and stunning smiles can sweep us off our feet, those are not the only traits that can drive us crazy.Not surprisingly, men often say that their wife or girlfriend is the best thing that has happened to them.We agree that women make a significant contribution in our success, in our professional as well as personal lives.More than being a blond, we want women to look beautiful in their own comfort zone. Attractiveness can spring from the way you talk, from your sense of humor, behavior, and expressive prowess.We find a show-off nature in a woman extremely annoying.Being yourself is always the safest path for both, men and women, especially in a healthy relationships.
We find attractiveness in those females around whom we feel comfortable. It sometimes goes beyond our logic to give some of our expert comments on your bitching topic(s), and hence, we remain silent, nodding our heads. Men appreciate sweet gestures that shower love upon them.
We don't expect you to be perfect a 10; a little less is never a problem. Girls, we know that bitching is an integral part of your nature. You can talk to your girlfriends, but when you come to us, don't expend your energy again on the same topic. Although we're used to nagging by our mothers, we never want it to be done by you. We love it when you slowly whisper, "I love you, honey", in our ears. Being treated like a kid sometimes does give us some sense of assurance and much-needed love. We love when you shop for us, and when you reply to our calls and texts, be it in the midnight or wee hours of morning. No matter how free we act, deep down in our hearts, we do need a sense of security.
We can talk about soccer or ice hockey, but we can hardly digest serious bitching. At some stage, when our testosterone is balanced and wisdom takes over our recklessness, we do wish to be in a serious relationship.
We may not show that we wish to be guided and possessed, but in our minds, we feel that belonging to someone is an amazing feeling.
A partner to share our deepest desires, joys, and pleasures is what guys need.