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If you go, treat it as you would the birthday of a friend you very much like: bring a card, buy them drinks, etc.
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Buy breakfast the next morning, make sure he or she isn’t too hungover, mingle with friends, etc.
If you’re invited to a more intimate celebration, such as dinner at a restaurant with friends, don’t feel obligated to attend.