Relationship game undergoes a lot of testing here, as are a man’s true commitment to his girl.
Now, I have had various experiences as have my friends, but there are two ways to react when a girl “tests” you. In the more communistic north, which is where I spent 9 months of my time, getting laid is *hard*.
Which at first is frustrating but becomes a source of amusement over time.
It means that right upon meeting a sexy Vietnamese girl(s), they are spiked with wonder and give you instant affection. The curve flattens – once you’ve got a good connection they refuse to let you grab them, take them home, put their arms around you on their bike.
If you’re already in Vietnam, then you only need to leave your hotel room.In no other place on the planet have I felt such intense lust and sexual tension with the women.And it’s no surprise that people (even in modern countries) are impressed when you score with a Vietnamese chick.In modern regions such as North America, Europe, or Singapore, women have learned to put up “shields” over their true personalities as they grow to be an adult.When talking to a western chick, a guy has to cut through shield after shield just to get at the root of a girl’s true feminine side before being able to take control. Vietnamese girls will attempt to lie or hide feelings you will always know where you stand with her, giving you an upper hand.This gives you the idea that they want to get romantic with you very soon just after a couple hours of meeting up. It is revealed that they very desperately just want to be your friend.Now obviously, that’s only how it appears to us, and what they really want is for you to ask them to be your girl friend (they always want it to be formal).While it is trippy to experience dynamics as they were in the 50’s, the girl will not hesitate to get vicious, and that includes sleeping with other men or seriously fucking your shit up at home.It makes shaking the “player persona” a tempting route but the dynamic does make you into more of a man regardless of your approach.This includes ignoring you completely for 2 days, flaking on a major date or commitment, or even claiming you stole something of theirs just to see how you react. This is due to how close they are with China both in terms of location and contract-like relationship culture.One is that you ignore her back and dominate, taking on the player role; the other is to “fall in” to her trap of drama willingly and be on your knees for her, begging. Although it does spike your exotic senses, it’s probably going to be a lot more dating and romance, and a lot less real action. But while Hanoi girls strive for a “perfect” pure, model look, Saigon girls value and exhibit far more diverse, with colorful and fashionable clothes, and revealing attire. Their core still feature the same values and you can find a wide range of conservative and liberal Vietnamese girls down here.