It’s not your fault that this happens, but maybe you can try to reduce it. And your servers will benefit from removing abandoned profiles.” A similar topic, why women don’t answer, had been discussed a while ago on the blog.I know that you send notifications, but I meant that you should send something like a warning. At that time a couple of guys complained that girls answered their Expressions of Interest (EOI’s) positively but after the first message stopped writing.
Yesterday I had a discussion on the blog with a male member about Russian and Ukrainian women who don’t login to the dating site for a long time.keep in mind that words themselves are limiting and reductionistic, and cannot possibly capture the richness and nuance of direct interpersonal contact.” I read stories every single day about people uniting on e Harmony. I don’t want anyone to shy away from the great tool that is online dating, but you have to be smart and do a little homework about this relatively new way of interacting with others.Our rule of thumb here is if you do connect with someone we have matched you with, try to meet them in person within several weeks if possible.Quite a few mails in Russian or English that I receive get deleted without reading.It doesn’t mean that I am not serious about communicating via email with people I want to converse with.If an e Harmony match says they want to come and visit you but need money for a plane ticket, close them out and contact us ([email protected]).If they say they want to keep chatting with you but their computer is on the fritz and they wonder if you could send them a new one, close them out and contact us.Let me ask you a question: If you were interviewing a prospective candidate for a position in your company, and 90% of what he said was OK, but 10% was not consistent with what you are looking for — would you hire them?Or would you tell them, “We’ll contact you”, and get rid of them?It just means that certain people and their messages don’t interest me.Elena’s Models is a regular dating site, and not a “marriage agency”. You have 100% control over what you are doing and whom you are dating, and so are other members — male or female.