OK, now I want to step back because I can imagine that my points may have enraged certain readers, who are ready to comment with things like, “Why should we have to reward his dumb ass for not lying? You know all sorts of women who lie to their female friends on occasion… To call up one common scenario, think dating, dishonesty, how to know if a guy is being dishonest, how to know if a guy is being honest, how to know if a man is lying, love, lying, male behavior, Relationships, why don't men tell the truth, why men lie I think this advise could be potentially dangerous in that it might convince women to ignore bad feelings they have and tell themselves “he just didn’t want to hurt my feelings.” There are a heck of a lot of men out there who are pathological liars, are married and are committing love fraud. He came to Birmingham to take care of his aunt she died last oct. We’ve just bought house abroad and ive just found out my boyfriend arranged to meet him while he was abroad working on the house and didnt tell me. I’ve dated a pathalogical liar – and while looking back some of the lies are hilarious, it truly scares me that some people are so insecure that they’ll lie about insignificant things like: I have 2 puppies, I lived with my ex gf, Judd Apatow is my mentor and his wife Leslie Mann is at this bar with me………. He was hungry and ordered pizza, while I just watched tv (in my own world).” And “why shouldn’t we put him through hell if the truth is that he’s an jerk? A man who lies doesn’t respect the woman and if she stays with someone who doesn’t respect her she could be setting herself to be used and abused. Yeah those things may be true to why he might lie but don’t you think there’s more drama when the truth finally comes out? 30 min later, after being on his phone quite a bit, he does “I need to go to the ER – my stomach hurts.” So I offered to Lyft home, but he refused and drove me home.I know he’s been hooking up with other women and I believe he knows I’ve been hooking up with others too. There is no reason for anyone to be dishonest or unfaithful.Here’s the thing, even though he knows that I know about it (though he doesn’t tell me but c’mon girls we all have that strong intuition) he still tries to hide it from me. Why would you hide something like that from your FWB considering that your relationship is just FWB? If they need to do either, then they should end it. But what are you doing that makes the women go wild and freak out.A despicable and disrepectful behavior that no one deserves, especially a person who u have been intimate with. We are making excuses to accept bad behavior and to accept being treated poorly. Some men are quick to call a woman’s emotional response to something he has said or done that hurt her as drama. He is finally looking into seeing a doctor, something he hasn’t done in a decade.
Lying underminds any relationship and calling one out when it is discovered is their consequence for lying and the liar deserves having someone being upset about it. Today’s attitude of everyone lies so just get over it, as your article implies and do not make a fuss about it, is just plain wrong! I don’t like being in public with him after he drives us to a restaurant after smoking it, and he is slurring his words at the restaurant, and doesn’t even notice that he has food running down his chin onto his shirt.
But he continues to lie to me and tells me it’s me he wants but he is constantly texting the other lady and telling her he really misses her and wants to be with her.
The other woman told me that he is only with me because she will not see him.
The lies u talk about in your article are not what breaks up a relationship. I have a cousin with MS, and she uses marijuana to relieve her symptoms. A lot of his co workers smoke pot on their breaks/lunches and then go back to work.
A man who promises certain behavior that his partner also promises i.e. I don’t think its necessary for someone to do that. I don’t have a problem with him smoking it to relieve pain. In spite of everyone saying that Pot isn’t physically addictive, a person can still become addicted to it. What I have a problem with is someone who uses substances to escape their lives.