Man B: Yes, I didn't like that most women my own age didn't seem to be in control of the relationship or in bed.
Many women, including myself, spent most of their lives competing with men – at work, in social situations and even at home.And to the woman, do the same thing and hopefully you'll find a guy of your dreams. I'm thoroughly smitten by a woman who is 15 years older than me, and if I let my fears stop me from talking to her when she first reached out to me, I'd have made the biggest mistake of my life. For women who have been trying to find that illusive “special someone” for a while, this may seem like an impossible question to answer. I only had one friend with benefits after that who was six years older then me. Since then I've always looked for older women above all else. Now I'm 31, and I have more experience sexually and a desire to satisfy my partner in every way I can. I hooked up with a 30-year-old when I was 18, so I was always into it per se, but I didn't really start dating older women until I was 20 and I met this pretty hot college teacher online.Man C: I'd say the biggest misconception is the idea of an Oedipus complex. Man A: To men: don't try to enjoy what she enjoys if you don't. I'm not looking for a mother figure or to be nurtured. Show interest in it, but you don't have to like her style of movies or music. If you want a serious relationship, make sure you don't act like a kid. Whenever you hear about men dating older women, it's often talked about like it's a way to "mix things up" sexually. In this week's Sex Talk Realness, spoke with three men about what it's like to love sleeping with much older women in a world that tries to make it seem like that's a rarity. I love dating in general, but I feel like older woman just have more to offer.Rarely do you hear about men who specifically want to sleep with women 15 years older than them as more than just a passing Mrs. They have experience that is more valuable than anything. My current girlfriend pursued me on social media and then we started dating. My last girlfriend and I would sit down and listen to all my favorite music, and it was a real bonding experience I'd never had before. Man B: I've never gotten anything more than a "huh."Man C: Sometimes people think I'm her son, but when that happens we just look at each other and laugh. " They'll also mention how it's been acceptable for older men to date much younger women and then question why it's not more socially acceptable for women to date younger guys. Man B: No, but the attraction has always been there. Man A: I like how mature they can be when handling serious situations, but also how playful and youthful they are.