Threatening him with an ultimatum isn’t a good idea; give him time to see how wonderful you are!However, Oshima also recommends keeping your options open—give him competition.Men are wired to hunt.” Young recommends not being available 24/7, so stop texting him first!
” While it’s generally best to stay away from these mystifying men, sometimes it can be worth sticking it out with a confused cutie who may just need a little direction.“It's hard sometimes, especially when you like someone and feel a connection.However, it is vital to allow the man to pursue you.But when should you stick around, and when should you run out the door?Here are seven mind games guys play and how to deal.“If you're an important part of [this] man's life, he will want you to meet his friends, so he can show you off to them." Next time he mentions his posse, ask to meet them!Or tell him you want tag along to a party he’s going to. But if he finds a way to get around your requests, let him go.“If every time you bring up the 'girlfriend' concept he shuts down, the worst thing you can do is to put more pressure on him,” Oshima says.“It's important to find out the reason why he's averse to the idea of a girlfriend.” It’s likely that this guy is flat-out terrified of commitment or has been hurt in the past.But if that dude doesn’t make any moves, then hey, there are plenty of other fish in the sea—fish who are entirely willing to say hi first. Get straight to the point: “I don’t like when you flirt with other girls in front of me.It hurts my feelings.” If he’s the good guy you thought he was, he’ll stop his offensive actions ASAP.