Remember the guy I was telling you about, well it seems more obvious now that he likes me, but he really is taking things too slow, no kissing or holding hands as of yet, and we’ve been on four dates already. We really don’t talk much other than when we meet up, like no MSN, no phone calls, just texts here and there.
I know he’s super busy, because he just got promoted, but if he’s that busy and if he takes his job as his top priority, I can’t imagine what kind of a boyfriend he’ll meeting because that’s when you see the whole picture.
What I bet is happening is that he wants you to reach out to him, initiate contact, etc.
If you like him, I would say reach out to him a bit but don’t pressure him to commit or talk about his feelings toward you at this point.
It could be for any number of reasons and it is most likely that he is just not in the place in his life that he can give you what you deserve.
My bet is that it really has everything to do with where he is in his life, not with anything you did or anything like that.
A relationship with a Narcissist has been compared to being on a roller coaster, with immense highs and immense lows.
They have been described as the proverbial Jekyll and Hyde, one way one minute, another the next.