It could be for any number of reasons and it is most likely that he is just not in the place in his life that he can give you what you deserve.
My bet is that it really has everything to do with where he is in his life, not with anything you did or anything like that.
I think there’s a lot to be said for choosing a person that very closely fits what you’re looking for. I basically said I do like you a lot, but I don’t know how you feel about me, I am willing to wait until you’re less busy, but I need to know what you think about me so I’ll know what to do.
Two months of not seeing each other after 4 dates is a bit wishy washy and I just need to know how he feels about me, because I honestly don’t know. Yeah, I hate to break it to you, but that’s him basically cutting it off. Pretty much he doesn’t want to hurt you, but he does not want to pursue it any further…
He doesn’t sound like a bad guy, but I would say you should make the decision to keep looking and let this one go.He could be really busy or just a little insecure and may want some reassurance.If you like him, I would say reach out to him a bit but don’t pressure him to commit or talk about his feelings toward you at this point.I don’t feel like I belong anywhere or with anyone.” Narcissists are completely self-absorbed and are oblivious to the wants and needs of others.They enter into relationships in an attempt to fill this void and to make sure that they have someone who is always available for sex, an ego stroke or whatever need they may have.A relationship with a Narcissist always follows three phases, the over-evaluations phase, the devaluation phase and the discard phase.The Over-evaluation Phase A Narcissist is very careful when choosing a target.Typically, they will choose a victim based on their status.They must be attractive, popular, rich or extremely gifted in some area.Based on that information, I would say that it’s not a lost cause. 🙂 Epilogue: I followed up a couple months later on this one to see how it panned out. Hopefully he’ll continue moving in this direction and will be more clear about when he can see you rather than leaving it open-ended.