Dear Lauren, I’ve been hanging out with this guy for 4 months. I know it doesn’t seem like much to you; after all, you’re already hanging out, you’re already intimate, all you want is to make it official and take the fun to the next level! He’s busy, he’s young, and he wants to have fun without the “drama that relationships inevitably bring.” (Do I know these guys or what?He’s a fashion designer and writer so he’s always busy. -Cerise Hey Cerise, He didn’t answer you because an answer might mess with the status quo and he likes things the way they are now. ;-) At this time, he doesn’t have a lot to give to a partner.I hear it all the time: “I’m just too busy to date.” You might be busy, but you’ve always got room for a social calendar.Human beings are social animals, but there are special dating tips for busy men.The best way to effectively use your time to make room for the social life you are lacking is to keep a diary down to the minute.This will help you to cut out areas where you might not be economizing your time best.Realize that you just don’t have time for all the women you meet. If you want more dating tips for the busy man sign up for The Art of Charm Academy.It’s the perfect way for the busy man to learn how to meet the right women and increase both the quality and quantity of his dates.
By asking him to be more than friends, you ask him for a greater commitment.
This means that you have to be smart about how you use your time.
The time is there, it’s mostly just a question of effectively using your time.
Love is a beautiful thing and I understand that you don’t want to throw it away. Shift a few expectations, create a few boundaries and you can continue to fall in love with this man AND let him be who he needs to be at this time. In time, a week, a month, a year, he might find he DOES a lot to give to someone and that someone might be you. Click to Tweet: What to do when you’re in love with an unavailable man.
(Click HERE to learn what you can say to pave the way in case he does change his mind! And if you want MORE awesome advice on love, sex, dating and relationships, sign up below for FREE email updates and a FREE copy of my awesome Ebook “Mars Venus Dating.” Xo! What’s bothering me now is that he’s been acting differently towards me ever since.