“I don’t know what the problem is here,” says Jody Radu.
At 46, Radu is tall and graceful with a sweet smile and a sexy rock-chic style. But when it comes to a real, satisfying relationship — lover, boyfriend, partner — there’s a gap. “I’ll talk to anyone, I’ve been online, tried all the websites, I make allowances, too.
Our matchmaking process includes a thorough personality test to ensure that we have a strong idea of who you are and what you are looking for in a person.So, why is it so hard to meet someone in Vancouver? Is it part of the city’s identity that the dating scene is as tricky to negotiate as its landscape, divided by waterways and forbidding mountains?Is it the way the city is spread out and shuts down early, its denizens more likely to rise at dawn to pound up the North Shore mountains on their bikes before work than lie in and roll over for a little good morning sex? Is it seasonal affective disorder, a collective low libido?Alternatively, if you’re not from an Asian background but are interested in getting to know someone who is, Elite Singles’ Asian dating provides the perfect meeting place to expand your social network and get you in touch with interested (and interesting! While there are lots of websites that are geared at providing hook-ups with Asian singles, Elite Singles is for those who really want to find a committed relationship – not a one night stand.By weeding out less serious singles, we can focus on users who have displayed a vested interest in finding a special someone; so you know that you’re not wasting time on someone who doesn’t have relationship longevity in mind.By tailoring our suggestions to your individual personality and specific partner requirements, we aim to reduce the amount of time you spend on irrelevant profiles. Of course, it’s important not to settle for anything less than a relationship you want and deserve, but if a potential partner doesn’t tick every single box on your list, that’s no reason to simply dismiss them.This is the reason singles from around Canada have signed up for Asian dating with Elite Singles; to boost their chances of finding a loving, likeminded partner. The secret is in knowing which factors are absolutely vital to you, and which factors are simply nice additions.Of course, it goes further than simply having shared goals; a healthy relationship is always based on mutual respect and understanding.At Elite Singles we understand that these factors, along with shared morals, traditions and cultural backgrounds are essential elements of a successful partnership.So play it by ear – be open to cultural differences, but also aware of the fact that everyone has a unique set of values and expectations when it comes to Asian dating. Sebastien Lessard, is a 37-year-old single guy living in Vancouver.